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jhameia ([personal profile] jhameia) wrote2008-03-05 11:25 pm

It's A Singlet

Okay. So tonight we were in the midst of rehearsal and discussing what our Bottom should wear for his final scene. My director said, "well, I'm hoping he'll be wearing a singlet."

Everyone else, mostly girls, went all, "it's called a wife-beater!"

And my director said, "well, I don't like that name." At this point, he had to talk over the entire crowd. "Anyway, when you pick it up at the store! It is not called a wifebeater! The label says SINGLET!"

I don't understand why it's called a wife-beater in the first place. Is it because the men who wear it all beat their wives?

That sort of makes no sense. Growing up, singlets were a part of life; my dad wore them under his dress shirts, and my brother and I wore them around the house because they were sleeveless and, well, cheap to buy. We certainly didn't beat any wives.

I understand that they're associated with the image of "trailer trash" men who wore them and boxer shorts, sit around all day and smack people around whom they don't like, particularly drunk. But I don't think it's fair to label it "wife beater" when perfectly good men, who have never lifted a finger in violence in their lives, also wear the same thing.

[identity profile] eiko82.livejournal.com 2008-03-06 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I never understood that either.

[identity profile] tenchan.livejournal.com 2008-03-06 03:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe look up the name origin? Sometimes stuff like that isn't what you think. Like a faggot is really a bundle of sticks...

[identity profile] fantasyecho.livejournal.com 2008-03-06 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
That's actually a good idea.

It's really calling it a "wifebeater" that I object to. I can't imagine the word "singlet" would be worse than "wifebeater" but I certainly do like etymology.

[identity profile] tenchan.livejournal.com 2008-03-06 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, just remember, words like nigger, faggot, etc weren't offensive until AFTER they were misrepresented and used in a derrogatory manner. Wifebeater might be another word entirely bastardized (like something German...who knows?)

Then you can take it in and use the 'original' term and make your friends blink.

[identity profile] fantasyecho.livejournal.com 2008-03-06 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I looked up the etymology of "wifebeater" and "singlet" at the Online Etymology Dictionary (I didn't know there was one. It's neat).

No entries for "wifebeater" and "singlet" is a "short, woolen garment" dating from the 1700's.

Living in WV...

[identity profile] music-whiz2002.livejournal.com 2008-03-06 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
...I must say I know of at least one reason why it's called this. The correct name most of us know it by is white-beater. Why beater? I don't know. But there's also the idea that (WARNING: Heavy Stereotyping Ahead):
White trash men wear these things with beer stains on the front in boxer shorts or underwear a la Pauley in Rocky. These white trash men wear these also while bitching at their wives to make them a sandwich or bring them another beer. Or they may wear them while beating their wives because she didn't make dinner correctly. I have not witnessed this personally but from the amount of domestic abuse cases I read about in the WV areas, one cannot help but make the association.

Once again, however, this is really stereotyping. I can't speak for everyone. Hope this made sense.

Re: Living in WV...

[identity profile] fantasyecho.livejournal.com 2008-03-07 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
The stereotype makes sense. It's associated with the trailer trash set, isn't it?

Re: Living in WV...

[identity profile] music-whiz2002.livejournal.com 2008-03-07 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I notice gang/thug stereotypes wear it too, but that really doesn't apply to where I live.