You're supposed to go out drinking and having fun with people you trust. No exceptions. If you can't trust them, don't go drinking with them. And no, it doesn't mean that it's your damn fault if you go drinking with douchebags; at least not the first time at least.
At some point, after multiple bad nights out with douchebags, you are, at some point supposed to say, "Goddamn, these people are douchebags," and react appropriately. But you get maybe one or two or three grace night outs, because hey, you could be blur sotong, it's not your fault that you are. But once you realize it, don't go out with them again. Do something else with someone else. Yes, I know, it sucks. I'm sorry to hear about your situation.
And oh, if you do pressure your friends to drink, let's not mince words here: you're a douchebag. And if you take advantage of inebriated people: you're a sexual predator. No, stop. Don't defend yourself. That's what you are. Don't justify, it only makes you a pathetic douchebag/sexual predator, on the same level as some adolescent cockmonkey on the Internet who keeps going on about "survival of the fittest" to justify their shitty behavior.
If you're a sexual predator, I hope you get caught one day. If you're a douchebag, I hope you get the friends you so deserve.
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Date: 2009-04-20 04:27 am (UTC)At some point, after multiple bad nights out with douchebags, you are, at some point supposed to say, "Goddamn, these people are douchebags," and react appropriately. But you get maybe one or two or three grace night outs, because hey, you could be blur sotong, it's not your fault that you are. But once you realize it, don't go out with them again. Do something else with someone else. Yes, I know, it sucks. I'm sorry to hear about your situation.
And oh, if you do pressure your friends to drink, let's not mince words here: you're a douchebag. And if you take advantage of inebriated people: you're a sexual predator. No, stop. Don't defend yourself. That's what you are. Don't justify, it only makes you a pathetic douchebag/sexual predator, on the same level as some adolescent cockmonkey on the Internet who keeps going on about "survival of the fittest" to justify their shitty behavior.
If you're a sexual predator, I hope you get caught one day. If you're a douchebag, I hope you get the friends you so deserve.